Should Christians Read Erotic Stories And Sex Stories?
Generally speaking, dedicated Christians would not want to read erotic stories.  Why?  Because Christians are more interested in living for God than gratifying the flesh. 

There are many ways to gratify the flesh.  Anything taken to an extreme can be thought of as a way of gratifying the flesh.  That is why the Bible says, "Love not the world, neither the things in the world, for if any one love the world, the love of the Father is not in him."   Materialism is the most prevalent way of gratifying ourselves in our modern day culture.  Anytime we get so wrapped up in our "life" that we neglect loving and serving our God, our spouse, our family and our neighbor, then we need a spiritual health check-up.

God wants our primary focus to be on serving Him, our family and our friends, and He wants us to be telling others about Jesus.  But also, God wants us to enjoy life here on earth.  God is glorified when a married couple has a healthy intimate relationship and looks forward to their intimate times together.  

A Christian married couple can serve God better if they have a healthy sexual relationship with each other.  There are several kinds of love and if a couple has a strong Eros love for each other, this helps the married couple to have the other kinds of love naturally without having to force the love.

Once a couple has been married for several years sometimes they may want a little added romance and spice in their marriage.  Billions of dollars are spent each year by married couples to help keep their passion alive for each other.

We have discovered that moral erotic stories can help a married couple have increased passion for each other.  But many Christians feel that it would be sinful for a married couple to read a moral erotic story together in bed. 

But why would God put the book of "Song Of Solomon" in the Bible if stories like it were inherently sinful? 

We believe in the sanctity of marriage and that is why we have this web site; to try and help save marriages. 

We agree the ultimate solution to marriage problems is for the husband and wife to love each other unconditionally the way God loves us. 

So our web site is a stop-gap to help married couples have a deeper love for each other while they mature to the point where God wants them to be. 

But we believe this web site is not just for problem marriages.  The mild, the medium and the hot writings can be a blessing in any marriage as long as the husband and wife feel they enrich their marriage.  

The stories are submitted anonymously and they may be true or fiction, so there is a very slim chance that the married couple will be lusting after the characters in the story; especially since their spouse is right there with them caressing them.

As one of our members once said, "This is such an incredible website!  It is so nice to celebrate marital sex as both a loving and erotic experience.  We would recommend this site whole-heartedly to couples who want to enrich their marriage."

We discourage married persons from reading them alone without their spouse.

When a married couple reads a romance story in which another married couple is enjoying romance and intimacy, there is also a peer-pressure effect.  The couple reading the story begins to be thankful that they too have each other.  This is the same phenomena that happens when people watch TV commercials and when people listen to testimonies at church.   These stories serve as a private pep-rally to encourage a married couple to enjoy each other romantically and sexually.

We welcome singles to read the mild stories but discourage them from reading the medium and hot writings unless they are engaged or just want to temporarily see what marriage is like. 

Being aroused from reading a story is not a sin.  However it can lead to a sin if the person reading the story wishes in their heart they were having sex with someone who is not their spouse. 

What Would Make An Erotic Story Or A Sex Story Immoral?
Our conclusion, from searching through the Bible, is that we should stay away from nudity and erotic material, if any of the following three things are present.

• If it took an immoral act to make the erotic material, then it is immoral.  For example if a single male and a single female made a movie portraying a married couple, it would be immoral because they had to commit fornication (sex before marriage) to make the movie.  Paul in the book of Ephesians said to not participate in the sinful things that others do.

• If the erotic material has immoral content, such as a story about an affair, or sex before marriage; then the story is immoral.  If the story is about people committing immoral acts such as sex before marriage or sex outside of marriage, then the material is sinful.  The reason this is wrong is again because Paul in the book of Ephesians in the Bible says to not participate or enjoy sinful things that others do.  God says he hates sin and we should hate sin too.  So if we enjoy reading or watching sinful material we displease God.

• The third reason erotic material may be wrong, is if it causes us to sin.  If reading the erotic story, or watching the rated PG or R movie, causes us to lust - then it is wrong. 

What is lust?  Lust is when we have someone in mind who we crave or wish we could get them to satisfy our emotional or sexual desires - someone that is not our spouse.

The Bible says to run away from temptation. 

We believe that nude pictures and nudity in movies usually causes the viewer to wish they could have sex with the nude person - causing sin.  Also, usually nudity in movies involves immoral story lines, and immoral acts, as described above.

We believe that if you are not married you should stay away from erotic material since it might cause you to wish you could have sex with the person in the story.  This would be sin.

If you are married and not with your spouse, we encourage you to stay away from erotic material because you might fantasize about someone besides your spouse and wish you could have sex with them.

The only situation where we see that erotic material may be helpful instead of a temptation, is when a husband and wife are together wanting to have sex.  Then, the erotic material may help increase their passion for each other and in so doing make their marriage stronger.  In this case the erotic material should have moral content.

This web site tries to provide moral erotic material for married couples to use together in bed.