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Advice for a lasting relationship
Never go to bed angry with each other.
Compliment each other at least once a day.
Say I LOVE YOU each time you end a telephone conversation.
Plan special times together (just the two of you) at least once a month.
Never use the word NEVER when arguing. For example, "You never tell me how you feel."
When you are frustrated or annoyed by each other's idiosyncrasies, count to ten and consider
the qualities that made you fall in love with your mate.
Always say please and thank you. Do not fall into the "old routine" and lose respect for one another.
If you are required to be apart for an extended period of time, take something that will remind you of your partner.
Never lie to one another. That may seem obvious, but there will be occasions when it will be tempting…JUST BE HONEST!
Have interests that involve other people, separately. Outside interests will enhance your relationship.
Think before you speak. If you would not want to hear what you are planning to say it is doubtful that your partner would either.
At least attempt to take an interest in each other's hobbies, no matter if they seem foreign to you or you could not care less how many fish your mate caught.
Surprise each other with little things; a massage without your mate having to ask, making your mate their favorite dinner, sending them flowers at work, etc.
Go to church together. Even if you are not a very religious couple, being together in the house of God is a calming and reassuring experience and your faith in God and your relationship will grow.
Never justify hearsay with a response. Always ask your partner their side of the story first.
Try to remember special dates; anniversaries, birthdays, and even less significant days, such as the day you met or the day you first said I LOVE YOU to one another.
Hold hands in public - It strengthens a relationship when you let the world know you are in love.
If your partner snaps at you, although it may be difficult, try to take into consideration if they have had an unpleasant day and let it slide… for the moment. You can accept their apology later.
Try not to air dirty laundry to family and friends. Where you are going to forgive each other in a short time, others will hold a grudge.
Above EVERYTHING else remember that this is the person you love and no one is perfect.
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