please help me!!!1

i feel like i make all the decisions in my household. I am like the man. lol Any advice?

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A reader says ... Thats alot eaiser said than done.  My husband will take no responsibility for the finances, to the point of hardly working and treats me horribly if I say there is something we can't afford to do.  I tried to give him the responsibility but he just kept spending and let the checkbook lay to the point of bouncing checks.

A reader says ... Just start letting your husband start making decisions.  Ask him what he wants to do or what he thinks.  But don't correct him.  See I know that when my wife asks me for advice it doesn't matter much what I say, because sooner or later she will correct me and tell me what she wants or thinks.  So the key to letting your husband lead is to stop making the decisions for him and stop arguing with him when he makes a decision.  Or to put it another way, always agree with his decision, even if in your heart you disagree.  Don't disagree and instead agree with him.  Then he will start leading.  Of course there will be times when you want to save him from disaster and so you will want to correct him.  But pick your battles and he will be a leader.