PRAYER FOR RECONCILIATION IN MARRIAGE BEFORE DIVORCE

I would like you to pray for my marriage to be reconciled, my name is Alice and my husbands name is Mike and we have separated and live in Zimbabwe.  He has filed for a divorce but I love him and miss him but he said there will be no reconciliation and that it is best that we get this divorce.  This happened about 3 months ago and I pray that we will get back together and that this divorce which the lawyers have told him should go through this month January 03 and I would like you to pray that this does not happen and that my husband and myself will be reconciled before anything happens.

I feel very lonely at the moment and we are in different towns but we communicate with each other.

Please pray that the impossible will become the possible and bless our marriage.

Thank you

Comments From Readers ...

A reader says ... my husband left me tonight for another woman after 40yrs so my prayers go to you and that in return may i get comtort from others readers also

A reader says ... I feel for all of these responders. I believe that people make mistakes and a lot of hurt gets spread to unsuspecting people. But you have to exhaust every opportunity to reconcile through counseling and mediators. Couples need to learn how to communicate again and become best friends all over again. It's not an easy process but you have to build on it one day at a time with patience and faith. May God bless all who have responded here.

A reader says ... I totally understand what you are going through with as for myself I am going through the same thing. My husband and I have been married for 22 years and on October 8, 2004 he left me. We still try to communicate, however, I don't know if it is a good thing to communicate with him or not. I ask him for a second chance and he tells me that he is not in love with me and when I ask him to talk about our situation he totally ignores me. I love this man more than anything and I feel as if he never loved me. I am vey depressed and feel as if I can't go on and when I do see him it rips my heart out when he leaves. Does this justify if he really cares about me or am I getting myself in a miserable situation?

A reader says ... I too have been selfish in my marriage-My husband of 21 yrs has been having an affair for 6 mnths. I pray everyday and read my bible that we reconcile and that god puts a godly man in my husbands life to show him the way back home. I am so ready to be his wife. My prayers go our to you.

A reader says ... Hi, I  Understand what  you are  going through.  Even i  went through this sam agony. of sepreration. lUckily for me My inlaws made sure that my husband accepted me  back. Initially after I came back to my husband he was very hostile as he knew that  he was forced to accept me back  but then slowl and steadily  he is coming to normal and  we ( read I) are  trying hard. So  dont give up  hope. If you are communicating with  your husband than that is the fist good sign that  he has not completely eliminated you  out of his life. Another thing is that dont  loose faith in  GOD . Got to God's home everysingle day.... pray and pray look at him as if he is a reall  human  talk to  him . cry ..plead beg to god.... I am  sure both you  ladies will get your husbands back.

A reader says ... I understand too much what you are going through.  I prayers your answered

A reader says ... I understand what your going through as I am in the same situation where my husband Michael wants to end our marriage.  It is because my fault because through the 7 years of marriage I basically took advantage of him not really acting as a wife.  doing things separate from him such as buyibg property and not including him in family decissions.  Now I realize what I have done and I have asked God and Michael to forgive me because I love him so much and allowed my selfishness to break us apart and now he doesn't want to have anything to do with me.  I sent cards and letters to him of apology and flowers to his job and he has not respond and now I am depressed and unhappy because I love him so much and want our marriage to work with a big chance in me.  Putting my husband first.  I also need prayer because I haven't eating in a week and I cry all day and can't function at work and it is affecting my daugter,Michael's step daughter.  She doing bad in her grades because of this.