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PLEASE ADVICE
Hi my name is reshma. Please advice on how do I handle my husband who is not saved and has and temper and anger. I love him allot he is the best thing. Please help.
Editors Note:
Your husband is angry and has a temper because he is not happy. He may not be happy due to stress at work or any number of other problems he might be having.
Your mission, should you chose to accept it, is to win him to Christ by your love that you show him. The most important time to remember to be loving towards him is when he is angry.
Don't argue with him. Try to understand why he is upset when he gets upset. If he is upset with you, don't take it personally. When he seems unreasonable, and seems to be attacking you, remember that he is taking his other frustrations out on you, so don't take his complaints about you personally. Be quick to agree with him. But don't just agree with him in the same tone of voice he is using. Use a tone of voice that shows that you are guinely interested in him and you really care about him and you are sorry you let him down.
Show your husband that you are sincere in your love for him. If a spouse is sincere about their love, they will not respond defensively and with anger when their spouse gets angry. Instead they will realize that their spouse is angry because they have an emotional problem. And they can help their spouse by showing him or her unconditional sincere love.
After a while of showing unconditional sincere love to your husband when he gets angry with you, his heart will be softened to you and he will realize in his heart he needs what you have – God in your heart. God can help you give him this love that he needs.
We will all be praying for you and him as we think about you.
God Bless you!
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