We'll Try Anything Sexually!

Make a serious sexual commitment to each other. Agree that you will both be willing to experiment and try anything the other desires. The one condition is that it must never include a 3rd person. Not by having someone else actually join you or through dirty magazines, videos, or Internet pictures.

My husband and I made this agreement before we were married, and it has helped us both keep a pure heart and a wonderful desire for each other. We never feel embarrassed about wanting to experiment sexually, and it feels so wonderful having a pure sex life.

Comments From Readers

A reader says ... Good advice.  But why are pictures and videos wrong to use in the marriage bed?  The Bible does not condemn this.  My wife and I lead a pure sex life and we sometimes use videos to help us be turned on for each other.  They really get us turned on.  But the problem is there aren't many moral erotic videos around.