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Freedom
I would like to thank you for opening up the discussions that are entered in your website. While I still haven't reached the point where I can agree that all of the writings are "okay", I am definitely moving more in that direction. My poor husband has been married to a sexual "crockpot" for the last 20 years. I had been listening to Dr. Ed Young give a talk on Sexuality and his advice to wives was very helpful and freeing for me. He talked on the need to be available and creative in the bedroom--and I started doing some research. My husband had (in the past) tried to "spice" things up a bit; but I was very conservative and though I believed that sex is a gift from God and to be enjoyed by both of us; I was still very concerned with being "good".
What I have found here and in other books is a gift--to me because it is helping me to feel like my natural feelings are not wrong or sinful and to my husband because he is finally reaping the benefits of the loving attention that he has showered on me during that time. All the while, accepting that I had to answer to my conscience and the Spirit. We have read some of the writings together and although I still enjoy the romance of the mild and medium writings best, I am finding hot ideas to try on my husband--(working on the creative aspect of my love life!) and my husband is loving it. So, (I have to admit) am I!
The feelings that I thought were long past--the sparks and the butterflies in my stomach are returning. We have used some of the suggestions here and I have come up with some of my own--I have a new one I can't wait to try! The oneness that we are able to share is truly a gift. It is amazing that we are still so afraid of being sexual beings--I still am, but am definitely working on changing that. My husband deserves all of me.
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