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Getaway at Home
This is a creative way to romance your wife. I tried this one evening when the kids were away at grandma's house. My wife was getting home after me that evening so I had some time to set up the house. I created a very romantic atmosphere in the house. I had candles burning in the bedroom with the bed made up and music playing. I did the same in the bathroom. I created some invitations on the computer to printout. One was an invitation to complimentary getaway at the Carter Bed and Breakfast. I put on there that we were honored to have her staying at our establishment.
All the things I could think of to make her feel special. With that invitation I had instructions on what she was to do and where she was to go. The first place she was instructed to go was the bathroom. In the bathroom were candles, a hot bubble bath, towel, washcloth, and her robe. In the robe was a note that encouraged her to take her time relaxing in the tub. It also told her that if there were anything she needed, the staff member assigned to her (ME) would be outside the door to serve her every need. The note also contained a request card.
The request card gave her options for different "services" that the establishment offered. You can make up your own, but I put things like: full body massage, back massage, and others. I also put the option of "other". This gave her the option of choosing what she wanted. I told her she could choose as many as she wanted or as few as she wanted. It told her to put the robe on, give the request card to the attendant outside the bathroom door (ME), and proceed to her suite where her personal staff member would fulfill her request card. Remember, the bedroom must be a relaxing and romantic atmosphere as well. The key is to make it as real as possible. So, what I did was once she was home I went to the bedroom and put my best suit and tie on. I then went into the living room to get her. Here I gave her the invitation and politely waited for her to get up so I could escort her to the first room. I introduced myself as her personal attendant for her stay at the Carter Bed and Breakfast.
Once she went back to the bedroom she had checked off full body massage and "other". Beside other she wrote in that she wanted me to make love to her, but in other terminology. It was AWESOME! I did not rush any part of the evening. I wanted her to know that this evening was completely on her terms. I made up in my mind that I would serve her and if sex happened great, but if it didn't that was fine too. Because she sensed that and I simply served her and romanced her, we enjoyed one of the most romantic, sensual, and exhilarating nights of our marriage. Anything good comes at a price. This takes some preparation, patience, and a lot of work, but it will be well worth it. We need to date our wives and be creative with how we do it. This did not cost me a dime. Everything I used we had at the house, but you would have thought we were away for the weekend.
Give it a try!
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