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Laughter in the bedroom
My husband and I have been married four nearly four years and we learned a long time ago that some of the most wonderful and passionate interludes in our bedroom have been filled with laughter. Romance and sex should be fun, and if you can laugh at your self while you are making love, then you are less inhibited, and more likely to share your wants, needs, and desires. My husband and I still giggle like when we were on our honeymoon, and I love it. Massages are romantic and sensual, but give me a good tickle war any time!
We also talk the whole way through making love, and this can make things much more intimate, we love to tell each other when we are enjoying something, and have no problem telling each other when something is not our favorite thing. I love that my husband and I hold hands when we make love, it is so beautiful, and so intimate to maintain that connection to one another, and helps us to remember that making love is not just a carnal physical need, but an emotionally fulfilling and spiritually close time between us. There is something very special about the hands of the person that God has chosen for us to share our lives with, something sensual and warm and safe and beautiful.
I love it when my husband runs his fingers along my palms, my fingertips and my wrists, something that says, " I love you, and I want to memorize every part of you." He knows the back of my hand like the back of his hand. :) I think that it is important for my husband and I to read the bible together and to pray together, this helps us to stay close to each other, and close to God.
God should be an integral part of the relationship between a husband and wife, He created us for one another, to bring each other love and companionship, and the marital act should be one that he would be proud of, something loving, strengthening and filled with joy. I love my husband very much and the times when we do not remember the importance of our sex life are the parts of our marriage, which are such a struggle.
Hard times seem to be so much easier to bear when my husband and I are deeply connected, and living as one. Intimate moments can be embarrassing... things happen. Grumbling tummies, pulled muscles, any number of things, which could be terribly embarrassing, with my husband they are not, because we love each other, and because we just laugh it off. We once purchased glow in the dark finger paint. Talk about hilarious, we laughed so hard we were snorting laughter, and it was wonderful.
I believe that a couple who truly enjoy a close and intimate relationship should be able to enjoy laughter together, and to enjoy making the love making experience one of humor. We make up silly stories about making love, and silly romantic poetry (humorous poems are especially nice when you have no particular talent for poetry) And I highly recommend playing with glow in the dark finger paint and having a tickle war at least once together!
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