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ladies, use it wisely
I just saw a young woman ambulating down a sidewalk. I just stared. This is not to say I looked at her with a selfish lust, though I suppose I might have (and it would have been wrong). It's just that women are attractive, including the ones who wouldn't be called stunning. I've been in wonder at the attractiveness of females since I was about four or five, and the fascination doesn't go away.
Ladies, you've heard this before: You have power in your feminine appeal.
That appeal is a great thing in the plan of God and an expression of His goodness that He made you that way. It's also possible, as you are aware, to misuse it, and very many women do exactly that. The temptation must be strong to use one's feminine allure to get male attention and, once having it, to use it in various ways to one's advantage. Obviously, some women do this a lot. Others, thankfully, are more careful. But I would imagine that even the most generally modest lady might, if she is feeling lonely, say, at least think about being a little more bold in how she presents herself before men.
If she is tired of being without a romantic relationship, she might start thinking that she's been too modest and that another look will bring the attention she wants. And she may well be correct that it would bring more attention. What kind and quality, though?
I'm not recommending loose, burlap sacks for apparel. You can dress like a real lady and be very feminine and very attractive. Remember that mystery is part of the picture here. With a sleazy look, there is no mystery (except, perhaps, "Why is she doing that?"), although there are plenty of slobbering, wolfish males who will respond by reflex. When a woman is a lady, though, there is mystery, and that can draw a gentlemen, or maybe even a few of them.
Whatever age you are, you have a feminine appeal. From a guy who admires that so much---and who is vulnerable to showing that same animal reflex just mentioned---please, please use it wisely. If you want to be in a genuine love relationship (and really, whether or not that happens), please love men enough to be a lady.
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