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Parenting
My husband and I have two sons. I've heard somewhere that it can be a good thing to let your kids hear you and your spouse argue.
Before you make a face that says.. WHAT!! Hear me out.
Of course you shouldn't cuss, hit or call your spouse childish names while fighting. But if your kids can hear you and your spouse have a tiff and speak kind and mature to each other... and resolve the problem then you just taught your children a lesson.
You taught them that people, even married couple in love have differences, but with kindness and love you were able to come to a compromise. You taught them to not argue but use kind words and how to give and take. And how to solve problems that they may face one day in their own marriages or just in life in general. Maybe the fight is with a boss, neighbor or a friend. But now they know how to act.
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