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Marriedsville - Enjoying Moral Fantasies
In the past few years, my wife and I have been enjoying a new freedom in the bedroom. For 15 years, we believed what society told us: sex is either stifled, predictable, and tightly controlled, or it is perverse and sinful. However, after reading Christian websites like marriagetakes3.com, we came to realize that the marriage bed truly is pure. We discovered, to our delight, that if it doesn't violate God's commands, and it doesn't violate our spouse's comfort, then it is ok. As a result, we went out and bought items like erotic board games, edible body oils, vibrators, and more. We found that referring to our body parts with “naughty” slang words during sex was not a sin. Our sex life was revolutionized!
One area that we struggled with, however, was the proper use of fantasy in our sexual play. Though we tried it (and enjoyed it), we couldn't get past the fact that it seemed necessary to pretend you were someone who was acting immorally. For example, if you pretend you are a naughty nurse taking care of a patient, you are essentially acting out adultery or fornication, since you are pretending to be unmarried. This put an end to our fantasy playing for quite a while. However, on Valentine's Day last year I came up with a way to engage in “moral fantasy”. I introduced my wife to “Marriedsville.”
My wife had always had a fantasy that she wanted to fulfill, and I wanted to make it a reality. On Valentine's Day, I handed my wife a sealed letter and a CD of love songs that I had compiled for her. I instructed her to drive alone to a particularly beautiful location that was nearby. Once she got there, I told her to play the CD on the car stereo while she read the letter. Inside the envelope I wrote this:
The Legend of Marriedsville
“It was a dark and stormy night that transformed the sleepy little town forever. Lightning and thunder shook the community of Marriedsville. It was like no other storm they had ever seen. Because of the unsettling nature of the storm, the entire population of the city sought refuge in the safest room of the house – the bathroom. Suddenly, a bolt of lightning struck the sewage treatment plant, sending a surge of electricity through the city and shocking everyone at the exact same time.
In an ironic twist, the accidental electrocution caused no long-term effect except one: everyone got amnesia. Even though the entire population was married, no one remembered who they married. Today, the town is living as though they are single – even though they are actually married. In a final twist of irony, the person they are most attracted to is, in fact, their forgotten spouse!”
At the bottom of the letter, I told her of the scenario that we were going to act out that night, and told her what she needed to know to get ready.
Our trip to Marriedsville went better than I ever could have imagined. My wife's fantasy came true, I was able to bring her pleasure, and we did it without acting immoral. My wife and I both look forward to going back to visit Marriedsville soon!
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