The ultimate warmup for her

Perhaps one of the best ways that I've "warmed my wife up" was an evening when I decided to take an entirely different approach.  It's a very simple approach, and works incredibly well.

Starting at the top of her head, I gently massaged each part of her body from the head down (pausing in stragegic areas), and telling her how each one of them was so beautiful to me, not only in the physical sense, but in an emotional sense as well.

While I'm not a very "emotionally connected" guy, let me tell you, this was worth the effort.  A simple phrase like "you have the most beautiful eyes, and I apprecaite that you can see the good things in me" nearly brought her to tears.

I'll leave the rest to imagination, but sufficed to say that it was a great evening :)

Comments From Readers

A reader says ... That's a very creative idea, friend, and one I'll have to try with my beloved.  But I have a feeling it meant something special to your wife because she knew you meant every word you said.  You said you're not very 'emotionally connected,' but I have a feeling you are more so than you realize!  If a man can bring a woman to happy tears simply using loving words, meant from the very pit of his soul... I'd say you've got what it takes, and you probably have something the rest of us mere mortal men wish we had or could do better!  Thanks for the idea.