Where to find moral videos

I've read a little about moral videos here on the site.  This sounds interesting but I have not been able to find a place to purchase them.  Do you have a suggestion of where to get them or a list that we can search for them online?

Editor:  We don't know of any videos where the producers guarantee that the man and woman in the video are husband and wife.  But drugstore.com does sell some produced by Sinclair Intimacy Institute and they told me that their participants were all living together as husband and wife.  

There may be some web sites where married couples post videos of themselves but I don't know of any.  

But as the apostle Paul said that eating meat that was offered to idols was not sinful, I believe that watching a video of a couple posing as if they are married would also not be sinful.

I would try and stay away from videos that promote premarital sex and cheating and homosexual and other deviant sexual behavior.  You want videos that portray marriage sex.

I wish we could give you a better answer, but for now we just don't know of any videos that are “for sure” of a married couple making love.  It is a case where the industry was developed by non-Christians because Christians initially thought it was evil.  I believe that was the case with TV.   But God wants us to keep an open mind and see if there is any good in the solutions that the world develops for problems.

We tried to produce some moral DVD's based on love stories here at the site.  We were going to blur the faces of the actors and actresses and show a collage of short video segments of many married couples interspersed with beautiful video and pictures of nature and famous places and scenes that would compliment the stories; while the stories were read in a dramatic way along with romantic background music.  

Not surprisingly, no married couples sent us digital video of themselves. Although there were several that said they planned on sending us video.

So we have placed the project on hold until there is more interest from married couples willing to participate.  

Comments From Readers

A reader says ... Well, we went and had our night alone at a hotel about an hour away from home.  It was amazing.  I never would have thought that I would do something like make a sex video.  I haven't watched it since we got home but did review it that night. We were both so turned on and excited by each other and the fact that we were recording it all.  Maybe someday I can write a story about what we did. I think it would be awesome.  I thank God for this website and the confidence it has given to both of us in exploring new things and not feeling guilty about it.  It has been such a blessing to us and has rekindled a youthfulness and love for eachother that has been missing for quite some time.  

A reader says ... That is great that you are making a video for each other, for when you are away from each other.

Watching something that is immoral is not sin, in and of itself, unless you think it is sin for you to watch it.  For example, when we watch a murder mystery where someone kills someone else, it is not sin to watch someone get killed.  But God hates sin and we should too, so we shouldn't want to watch things that are sin.

So I wouldn't want to watch homosexual activity because God says it is unnatural.  

God hates the sin and loves the sinner.  So we should think the sin is weird, that people would actually be so far off from God's best for their lives, but then we should feel compassion for them and think, they really must not be very happy in a life style like that.

I know I would not get turned on watching two men have sex.  It would be totally gross.  Now two women having sex would be interesting, but not because they are lesbians but because of seeing naked women and sexually excited women.  (I am a man)  But even though would be interesting to see two women, it is also gross because I know the women are so messed up to be living a real lifestyle like that.  I would feel sorry for them.  So they are really not a temptation for me, but I don't feel it would be sin if I was curious and looked at a portion of one.  

I would not be curios, at all, to look at a male homosexual video - it would be gross.  

And my wife thinks the female/lesbian videos are gross so between the two of us they are both gross and so we would not watch them.  

A reader says ... Thank you.  I did check them out and found several very good armature video of married couples.  However... There was also, as you would expect a plethora of highly immoral videos too.  Does the use presence of immoral video negate the usefulness of the moral?  Doesn't this lead to a huge temptation to also view the others?

My husband and I are planning a night away from the kids in a hotel and are planning on making our own video for our own use only.  He is scheduled to go away for a business trip and I think it would be fun to have something to watch together but apart.

A reader says ... Youporn.com, PornoTube.com, and Megarotic.com are sites where users can upload and download erotic video.