Title: "My husband thanks you!!!" Author: Unknown
Well, I would have to say a HUGE thanks!! Not only to the people who founded this wonderful website, but, also, to all of you husbands and wives out there that take the time to write and share some of your wonderful intimate stories and ideas!! I will have to say, I honestly believe that "accidentally" finding my way onto this website probably saved my marriage!! And, I know with God, there are no "accidents", at least not in this situation. You see, I have been withdrawing from my husband for the last few years, sexually, emotionally, spiritually, anything, you name it. I was just NOT happy. I think (thought) the romance was completely gone from our marriage. I thought I would just be STUCK in this marriage for the rest of my life. We hadn't had sex in over 2 months.. and even when we did, before, it was just to get him off of my back about it. And when I DID give in, I totally resented him for having sex with me when he knew I didn't really want to.
And to be totally honest, I couldn't even tell you what was driving that wedge in between us. He is such a wonderful husband; he has been through all of this. A lot of people would have left. But, he just kept telling me that he loved me, and he would wait for me to figure things out. And, I'm so glad he did. ANYWAYS.. to make a lloooonnggg story short(er), the other day, I was about to my wits end with all of this, and I actually told him that I didn't have the same feelings for him that I used to, and I wasn't really in love with him anymore.. it was so hard to say, but, that's what I was feeling. And, I didn't know what to do... so, he went to bed, and I came downstairs and got on the computer to look on the web and see if there was ANY Christian web-sites that had any advice on a situation like mine. and..
SOMEHOW... I ended up here... I spent about 2 hours on this site just kind of browsing.. and reading everyone's wonderful stories.. and somewhere, somehow.. it started stirring up feelings inside of me for my husband that I haven't felt in a long time... (I'm starting to cry as I write this.. this is so emotional for me.. ) Anyway, I kept reading and kept reading, and finally went upstairs and got in bed. It was like almost 3 o' clock in the morning, and I laid there, and I wanted to wake my hubby up and talk, but, I felt bad since he had to get up in a few more hours to go to work.. but, I very quietly said "Matt, are you awake?" If he didn't answer me, I was going to forget about it. But, he was awake.. he just kind of looked at me.. now, remember, our previous conversation was leaning towards me wanting to leave the marriage.. and that I wasn't in love.. so, this next part was probably NOT what he was expecting.. but, I said " Matt, I want you to kiss me like you did when we were dating!"
And he waited a few seconds, and kissed me.. and let me tell you.. it sent butterfly's from the tips of my toes to the top of my head!!! It was all there!! And, after that .. I said " I want you to make love to me.." And, that's something he has hardly EVER heard me say to him throughout our WHOLE marriage.. And, so, that night, we made love.. and it was SO passionate, so incredible, so WOW!!! After we were done, we just held each other and I squeezed him so hard and said " I LOVE YOU, AND I'M SO GLAD YOU'RE MINE!!" That was about 4 nights ago, and EVERY NIGHT since then, we have had SUCH a WONDERFUL time with each other.. sexually, emotionally... in every way!!
The romance is definitely back!! And it has been wonderful! I feel like teenagers again.. we've been flirting, teasing, playing, all the stuff that kept us going when we were dating!! I'm telling you!! If you are in the same situation I was in, BRING BACK THE FUN INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP!!! And, this website has been one of the biggest influences in this process!!
But, most importantly, I thank God, because, I honestly believe that HE led me here, and because of that, my marriage is going so great!!!!!! And I am happier than I have EVER been!!! Thanks everyone!! And THANK- YOU LORD!! YOU ARE SO AWESOME!! I PRAISE YOU FATHER!! YOU RESTORED MY JOY!! YOU RESTORED MY MARRIAGE!! YOU HAVE GIVEN ME SOMETHING THAT I DON'T EVEN DESERVE, BUT, BECAUSE YOU LOVE ME, YOU WANT ME TO BE HAPPY!!THANK-YOU FATHER GOD! AND I PRAY THAT I WILL NEVER EVER LET MY MARRIAGE GET WHERE IT WAS!! HELP US TO ALWAYS BE AS WE ARE NOW, AND LET OUR LOVE GROW EVEN STRONGER... FOR EACH OTHER AND FOR YOU!! AMEN!!!