Title: "my wife doesnt like to have sex. ?" Author: Unknown
Hello to all.... who can help.
I'm 32 years old and I'm in my 2nd marriage... my x wife left me and our two kids in Dec 24 1999 for another guy on the internet, after 11 years. I moved on with my kids and i found the girl of my dreams, i actually had a dream of her before we even met. And the way we met was pretty weird so to speak, like meant to be. lol
She's perfect in every way, but one thing, she doesn't like to have sex, she will not start the sex, but please don't get me wrong, she does give me sex, but she doesn't like to start it. I have to ask for it all the time. If i don't ask for it, we can go for weeks with out having sex, believe me i know i did it for a test.!!!
Be have been together for 4 years, she's 24 and I'm 32, i know the age difference there lol. But she's more mature than ya'll think; we have four kids all together. My 2 and we have 2.
I noticed this 3 months after we got together, but i didn't think it would go on like this, i talked with her, i talked with her mom, sister.... but she even told me if she had to take a pill to please me then she would leave me. Please understand i get sex from her, but when we are having sex she doesn't really participate in the act, she just lays there. I've asked her if she ever been raped or touch wrongly or anything, a bad relationship ... something. I need help!!! I'm to the point to where i just feel like leaving, but i do love her...i just feel like if my marriage is like this, i don't want to get old not enjoying our life together, we only live once.
I want to tell ya'll a few things she tells me.... and does...she doesn't like to watch any love making on any movie...funny huh (i don't mean dirty movies.... she despises those. she doesn't put on anything provocative either.... she doesn't even play around in a sexual fashion. when we first got together i didn't really notice it at first. but less than three months later i did. i tried everything under the sun possible. I'm to the point to slip her a Viagra in her Dr. Pepper...lol
Can i say, I'm not here to put her down, she's a good mom, and a good wife.... i just want a little excitement in my love life. I'm 32 and i like to get a little freaky, not nasty just freaky.... please someone help a desperate dad here...thanks