Title: "Starting Your Engines and Erotic Stories " Author: Unknown
A harmonious relationship, regular exercise, adequate sleep and proper eating habits (not overweight) are critical to helping a couple be able to be turned on for each other. (When we are not overweight we are more attractive for our spouse and we are healthier and more able to serve God.)
But even men who are in good shape can have erectile dysfunction (ED) symptoms. This is because with age, a man's testosterone level declines, contributing to his lack of ability to get turned on. Also men, when under pressure to perform, can have a fear of lack of performance, causing them to not be able to get turned on.
Because the brain is the most important sex organ, erotic stories can cause the brain to become sexually aroused, sending signals to the sex organs to get turned on.
Married couples may read erotic stories together in bed, as a way to help the husband with (ED) get turned on. Reading together erotic stories can be a natural alternative to Viagra and other drugs or an enhancement to Viagra, i.e. a trigger for erection.
We recognize the benefit of erotic stories in treating ED and in helping married couples be turned on for each other, and so we have liberal but moral writing guidelines in order to allow the most permissible moral erotic stories. And we also realize that even the erotic stories may not be that exciting for some married couples. And so we condone married couples using erotic videos to help spice up their love life.
What Does God Think Of Erotic Videos
In Matthew 11 verse 19 the religious elite were condemning Jesus. Matthew 11 verse 19 says, "The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and they say, 'Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and "sinners." ' But wisdom is proved right by her actions." See, they were calling Jesus a glutton and a drunkard because he was hanging out with the sinners. But Jesus points out that we should not jump to conclusions when it appears someone is breaking our rules and personal convictions. But rather we should look at the outcome of their actions to see if what they are doing is right or wrong. Some Christians think we are sexual perverts here at this web site, but the truth is, we are trying to help married couples.
Jesus goes on to explain that God is not so much interested in us keeping rules as God is interested in us being loving and merciful to others. Jesus says in the next Chapter in Matthew 12:7, "If you had known what these words mean, 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice,' you would not have condemned the innocent.What Jesus is trying to teach us, is that the way to be holy and please God, is not by keeping a set of rules or making self-sacrifices but rather by showing love and mercy to others. Jesus said that if we would understand this, we wouldn't condemn the innocent.
Man-made rules make it difficult for people to get saved because people think they will have to live by the rules in order to get saved. God does not want to make it difficult for people to get saved. This is why Jesus said in Matthew 11 verses 28 to 30, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."
And the elders and Paul did not want to make it difficult for people to get saved either, and so they said in Acts chapter 15 verses 19 and 20, "It is my judgment, therefore, that we should not make it difficult for the Gentiles who are turning to God. Instead we should write to them, telling them to abstain from food polluted by idols, from sexual immorality, from the meat of strangled animals and from blood."
In Romans chapter 2 verses 1-4 Paul condemns those who judge others. In the middle of condemning those who judge others, Paul makes a profound statement in Romans 2 verses 3 and 4 when he says, "3 So when you, a mere man, pass judgment ... you show contempt (to God) for the riches of his kindness, tolerance and patience, not realizing that God's kindness leads you (and others) toward repentance?"
These verses hold the secret to how God changes the lives of people and why we should not interfere with God's process. Paul is saying that when we judge others, we "show contempt" to God. When we judge others we short-circuit God's plan for saving people. Paul says that God's plan for saving people is that God shows them kindness and tolerance and patience. Paul says God's patience and kindness and tolerance leads people to repentance.
We don't want to be the reason people don't get saved. When we judge people for things God does not judge them for, we may be keeping them from becoming Christians.
We hope Christians will see that this website shows mercy to married couples by helping them have this anonymous forum in which they can share stories.